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A Marriage Disrupted by Financial Expectations
In a Reddit post, a woman sought opinions after an argument with her husband during a celebratory dinner. The couple, who had kept their finances separate for three years, faced tension when the husband, who had just received a work bonus, asked his wife to pay for the dinner with his family. The woman was taken aback and felt it was inappropriate for him to assume she would cover the cost.

An Unexpected Request
The husband had planned the celebration, picking the restaurant and ordering food, and expected his wife to pay for the meal. He handed her the bill and said, “Take care of it,” assuming she would contribute as a celebratory gesture. However, the woman believed it was his responsibility to cover the expenses, especially since the dinner was to celebrate his achievement.

The Conflict and Fallout
When the woman refused to pay, the couple argued. The husband called her “visibly bitter” and later admitted he hadn’t yet received the bonus, asking her to cover the cost and promising to repay her later. She reluctantly paid for her meal but was angry at both her husband and his family. After the incident, the husband’s family repeatedly called her, and tensions at home escalated. The man defended his actions, stating that if roles were reversed, he would have paid for her family’s meals.

Online Support and Escalating Tensions
Seeking advice, the woman shared online responses with her husband, but this worsened their relationship. Internet users criticized the husband’s financial planning and his lack of responsibility in paying for the dinner. The conflict continued, with some commenters questioning the husband’s financial habits and accusing him of manipulation. In a similar case, Reddit users advised a woman to reconsider her engagement to a man who frequently made her pay for his meals.