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A Father’s Unusual Journey to Adoption

Luca Trapanese, a 41-year-old single gay man from Italy, made headlines after adopting Alba, a baby girl with Down syndrome who had been rejected by 20 other families.

In a country where adoption by single or homosexual parents is rare, Luca’s story stands out.

“I was told that I’d only be given a child with an illness, a severe disability, or behavioral problems,” he told the BBC. “I was absolutely OK with that.”

Breaking Barriers

Luca’s adoption of Alba in 2017 challenged social norms in Italy, especially around family and fatherhood.

“My story destroys stereotypes about fatherhood, religion, and family,” he said.

Despite Italy’s restrictive laws, social services made an exception, and Luca became Alba’s legal parent when she was just 13 days old.

A Lifelong Calling

Luca had always wanted to be a father. After losing his best friend to cancer as a teenager, he devoted himself to helping others, volunteering in facilities for people with disabilities and with Catholic charities.

“It was the first time I’d held a newborn baby. Before that moment, I had always been scared.

But, when I first held Alba, I knew I was ready to be her dad,” he shared. “I was overcome with joy. I felt she was my daughter straight away.”

A Joyful Life Together

Today, Luca and Alba live a vibrant, love-filled life. Despite challenges brought on by the pandemic, they enjoy painting, traveling, and spending time outdoors. “She brought me happiness and a sense of fulfillment. I am proud to be her dad,” Luca said. Through his Instagram, followed by over 320,000 people, Luca shares their everyday adventures — offering a heartwarming glimpse into a very special bond.